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As you take on years, Mr. Leery, you'll come to realize that you don't always lose people from your life by choice. Sometimes it just happens when you make the wrong ones
—Mr. Brooks

You Had Me At Goodbye is the 7th episode of Season 4 of Dawson's Creek.

Synopsis[]

Andie's (Meredith Monroe) father (guest star David Dukes) suggests the teen take a six-month trip to Italy as a reward for her academic excellence and to relax before she starts college. Meanwhile, Joey (Katie Holmes) needs a peer recommendation for a college application from the person who knows her best, and she's torn between asking Dawson (James Van Der Beek) or Pacey (Joshua Jackson) to author it.

Starring[]

James Van Der Beek as Dawson Leery
Katie Holmes as Joey Potter
Michelle Williams as Jen Lindley
Joshua Jackson as Pacey Witter
Kerr Smith as Jack McPhee
Meredith Monroe as Andie McPhee[1]
John Wesley Shipp as Mitch Leery
Mary Beth Peil as Evelyn Ryan
Special Guest Stars
Harve Presnell as Arthur Brooks
Sasha Alexander as Gretchen Witter
Mark Matkevich as Drue Valentine
Recurring cast
Carolyn Hennesy as Mrs. Valentine
Guest starring
David Dukes as Joseph McPhee[2]
Co-Starring
Heather Avery Clyde as Ms. Watson
Tammy Christine Arnold as Office Assistant
Mike Harding as Officer Morris

Quotes[]

I think what we're going to miss about you the most, McPhee, is your overwhelming optimism. Your ardent belief that everything in the world is wonderful until proven crap
—Pacey to Andie
You know who that guy you reacted like is going to be in 10 years, Pace? The person who knows me best. Dawson knows my past. My future lies with you
—Joey
We can move on without moving away from each other
—Andie to Pacey
Pacey, Joey, Dawson. You guys are so lucky. Do you have any idea how rare it is to have friends that you've known your entire life? So please don't underestimate that. Because in the end you always go back to the people that were there in the beginning. And in the beginning, there was the three of you
—Andie

Locations[]

Trivia[]

  • Joey picks Dawson as the person who knows her the best; after deciding not to write it initially, Dawson changes his mind.
  • Andie decides to leave Capeside and move to Italy to live with her aunt.
  • Jen and Drue have to do 100 hours of community service as punishment for the incident with Andie.

ALLUSIONS

  • The title is a reference to the Jerry Maguire line, "You had me at hello."

BROADCAST

  • The episode was watched by 4.54 million people upon its original airing on the WB.[3]

Music[]

wonderful | EVERCLEAR[4]
pacey and andie in her room; dawson + mr. brooks; jack avoids jen
two wrongs and a right | THE NORMALS
dawson paints mr. brooks's fence
freedom from shame | MICHELE CUMMINGS
jen + drue; andie + her father; dawson + joey
i will remember you | SARAH MCLACHLAN
farewell dinner

Photos[]

Notes and references[]

  1. This is the last episode to feature Andie McPhee as a main character on the series
  2. This episode is dedicated at the end to David Dukes who sadly passed away in October 2000
    In Loving Memory
    David Dukes
    1945—2000
  3. Ratings Ryan — Dawson's Creek (WB): Ratings Recap
  4. Replaced on DVD and streaming with "At The Top Of The World" by Juliana Theory
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